But this is the way of life. The ups and downs in a r/p. We just have to remember the little moments tat keeps the r/p alive. By doing so, we not only doing the other party a favour, but making ourselves happier as well. Insya’Allah, things will get easier. More dugaan will come as time passes by. Dugaan tu pasti hadir. Kita haru redha and deal with it. Don’t overlooked and shush it away k.

May ur r/p with Haikal kekal selamanya.:)

I think the most important thing is to control our emotions well(esp girls).
Sometimes,when we are saddled with too many things at work or other stuffs,the first thing we would do is to rant at our bfs without realising that they themselves have their own problems.So effective communication is an important key factor here. :D

Last bt not least,add some humour when there’s a need for it.It helps,really. :)

my point is, whatever the reason, whatever the challenges, dun give up, dun give in and dun underestimate the yr feelings and yr relationship. your mom might disagree with me but at yr age i don’t think it qualifies as cinta monyet anymore. you are young adults, about the same age me and my hubs met and fell in love… if nurtured, the love will go far.

anyways, the same thing happened to me and my hubby around the third year we were dating. but with a lil effort we worked things out and figured out what kept us going and happy. we became much2 stronger than we expected and we understood what we we would be missing out if we were to have gone our separate ways. and now we’re married and going on 7 years with each other. the challenges keep on piling up but we learnt how to tackle them.

paiseh for the long comment yah… stay strong.