Interesting MRT ride deux.
With regards to my earlier post on interesting MRT rides, I think it’s time I come up with Part Two, seeing that that post garnered quite a bit of response :)
The following video that you’ll see after the break might probably shock you. Some of you might have seen it (or blogged about it), some of you might not. But all the same, because I think we all should learn from it:-
I have to admit that my initial action was to laugh and mock the woman screaming in the video. I know perhaps that’s a harsh thing to do since she had just gotten two-timed by her asshole of a boyfriend, but I really, really thought she had much bigger problems then that; herself.
In my opinion, she really could have handled it better. For one, shouting her head off over the phone in the view of dozens of strangers just screams of unwanted attention. Also, showcasing the worse of your characters AFTER being unceremoniously dumped (of which the whole cabin, and now 22 000 plus Youtube viewers, have realized, of course) just makes people go “No wonder she got dumped.”
True, perhaps the poor woman got so agitated and upset (yes, I do know how she feels) that she loss all sense of control so for that we can give her some space, but in this matter, I feel that her friend failed in being her friend. I mean, seriously, is it so hard to drag the incoherent woman out of the train?
Seriously, if I were her, I’d be so SO thankful that the quality of the video was rather poor. I wouldn’t be able to bear the stress of being the laughing stock of thousands of Singaporeans, especially since I bet her boyfriend (now Ex, I assume) must be sniggering at the whole situation.
What do you think of her actions? Justified? Not justified? What will YOU do if you were in her shoes?
- Entry at Liz’s
- Entry at Eddy’s
i bet this girl doooo love her boyfriend..but if i were her i will errr..i donnoe but all i know is that I WILL NOT BARK LIKE A CRAZY BITCH in public.BTW her friend stupid or what like never do anything like that..no offence though
hahah ok “bark like a crazy bitch”. that;s funny. tak aku sangka sedara aku yg kecik ni dah pandai vulgar eh. BILANG IBU!
Wah, first time I hear something like this in Malay. And her Malay language is so flowery, fluent and powerful. But vocab limited haha. HAHAHA.
Questions:
1. Why is her goondu friend on the phone, too? Maybe the friend is the “pompan tu”?
2. Why does the goondu bf not hang up the phone? He must have some fetish for the word “pocky mark”. Chekedet and stohbeddi.
3. Why does the bigsized ahpek look scared? Haha, he’s the biggest in size there. So cute the ahpek, I like.
haha LTS you quite out of the loop hor? Actually I come across this behaviour many times, but not at MRT la. hehe..
1) That is SO MENGAROT. haaha
2) His fetish for pocky mark is what makes him cheat in the first place what hkeke.
3) You want his number? kekeke..
i had the same thought too. i remember telling my sister the girl’s got a really useless friend. if u had noticed, they passed a couple of stops. and i find it shocking that it didn’t cross her mind to bring her friend out of the train. if i were in the train with them, i’ll probably tell them to f’ck off. lololol.
LIke what some people said, maybe she’s scared of minah friend. Anyway I wouldn’t dare to tell her to f*ck off. I’d probably tell her friend quietly, I THINK.
faddy, im in office, yes its past midnight. i actually went to find a pair of earphones to listen to this. hahaha! yes, super kpo.
i ask you, whats the meaning of “pangkeng”? so many words i never hear before. and the “wom bah dey, wom bah dey, wom bah dey” in tamil in the background was such a laugh!
and answering your qn of what i will do in such a situation. if i was the girl, i would not bother. embarrassing enough to get dumped, must i lower my selfworth further. if i was a member of the public, i would take a video. hahaha! if i was the friend, i would walk out. but the friend, big boob but small brain lah so what to do. if i was the ahpek, would i step in? no, this minah looked like she’s capable of pulling her slipper off and smack my head with it. if i was a non-malay commuter who could not understand malay, i would have cursed myself for not studying the language. this one is shiok stuff. cannot bluff. kau kat mana lah, kat pangkeng..
ei ei, faster tell me what’s pangkeng, you must tell me or i wouldn’t be able to sleep.
HAHAH LTS YOU’RE SO DAMN KPOCHEE! hahaha. Memang suitable with your career hehe..
Anyway, I hope you received my sms pasal pangkeng kekeke. And yes I’d agree with not shouting in public, but I wouldnt walk out if i were the friend. Like rather bad isn’t it, leaving your unsound friend like that? :/
eh eh eh! i juuust watched this a few days ago. I thought of forwarding to you. anyways, i think the drama is so unecessary. for all u noe “pompan tu” might be his mum or 3 yr ld cousin or grandma. hahahahaahah. and i tink anger has the greatest impact when it is quiet. but oh well. imagine if she found out she’s on utube… and she found out on the train… *GASP* –>
Pokimak aku dlm utube?! utube?! siyal!! pokimakpokemon!! ape url?! ape url la siiiiiyaaall.. *sobsob*
teeeeeeeeeehehheheheheehe.
Heh, lain kali forward je babe! I need such juicy things to spice up my mundane life hehehe.. and wth? Pokimak? pokemon? HAHAH gila nye totot.
three words…attention seeking behavior…LTS…according to my minahism dictionary..hehe..pangkeng means..you know..ahem ahem…doing it…it takes two to tango..=)
Minahism dictionary kepeee…
hello.. i’m in a dead silence school and had to use the headphone..too loud..hahaha.. poor girl… not only has she lose her bf but she lose face too.. yes, she should handled it better.. man, why i never see such things on mrt..i only see people vomit or get intimate.. sigh.. honestly, if i was her friend i would walk away if i fail to pull her out of the train..wakakakakak.. i think her friend scared of what she might do to her if she shut her up or slap her..
Intimate, yes. Vomit, no and THANK GOD. I’m the kind who vomits upon seeing/smelling someone else vomit hahaha…
i didnt really laugh at what she did. infact i felt sad for her.
just that the way she handled emotions, abit too drama. but then again, we are all humans. :)
True that :) Maybe she watch too much Suria.
I watched the vid on eddyboi’s blog yesterday, whilst at work. Watching the vid, somehow and somewhat, I feel sad for the minah. Where’s the self worth eventhough her BF dumped her. Tsk tsk tsk … Then again, it’s MINAH. I rest my case ;p
Kekekekke *no comments* :P
Honestly, I do not find this video entertaining in any sense. While she could have handled the situation better (both the lady and her friend) and saved other passengers the pain of enduring the loud ramblings, do you think what you have done is right too?
It is devastating enough to be dumped by her boyfriend, how would having this video posted on the net help her? She was probably too distressed then to think of a better way to handle this. I have no idea what time this took place, but she may have been rushing to work or an appointment too and hence did not alight at any stations.
In any case, if you expect her to handle her emotions in a more appropriate way in such a trying time, why not expect yourself of a little more morality than to post this video which mocks her? It doesn’t matter if the video is blurry. In the least, you have time to reconsider your actions in a calm state.
Hello cherry, firstly I didn’t record the video and I did not mention anywhere that I did. Actually I found it on youtube. And yes, your points are valid, that we should give her the benefit of doubt. But I still feel that perhaps she (and all of us) can take this as a lesson, instead.
Cherry, I don’t think it is any wrong posting this video for the public to view as this outburst had taken place in public. And she’s a public nuisance, and to put it broadly, an offender since her colourful expletives were offensive to an average train commuter. Like a person who abused the maid or a cat/dog because he/she was too depressed and distressed, this is no excuse for behaving badly. If you want to talk about morals, then it is morally wrong for her to abuse the public, and it is morally right of the public to spread this, and treat it as a lesson about manners.
Nana - pangkeng, thanks. What’s “boncang”? I heard boncang also. Haha.
Boncang I dont know. But I know “goncang” - Masturbate. AND HOW COME I DONT HEAR ALL THESE WORDS?!
i agree with mr malique. i feel sad for her and along with her. it must have been a devastation for her, to say the least, when she threw her sanity and social expectations out of her window.
i just feel sad, very sad. i hope she’s better now tho.
I always knew you had a heart of gold, kak naz :) Anyway, I do hope she has learnt from all of this and is better now too.
Let me just say this, men are not worth all that emotional turmoil. A b****** will always be a b******, and nothing can change him no matter how loud one screams at him in a train. So no point in going thru all that and displaying public embarrassment. See, now that the entire Singapore has seen this vid, it’ll make her look really bad and only a fool will want to date/marry her. She could have just moved on and looked for a better guy - there are PLENTY of better guys out there!
Good luck to her!
Haish, I guess she really must have felt some super strong emotions at that moment that she loss all control. I’m sure her bf (or ex) must be laughing away right now. Pfft. Anyway, it’s easier said then done I think. When I was dumped, I didn’t shout etc but I did cry tons and loss SO MUCH WEIGHT. forget tummytrim. Have a break up!
trust me, when you’re my age, it’s lots easier. except time pms *hahahaa*
btw, u missed my x files horror story…
Didn’t miss it dear :) I’ll never visit that cinema ever. hahaha.
My side of the story: http://finneganbell.wordpress.com/2007/12/04/them-the-pests/
Thanks finneganbell for sharing! :D
hahahaa.. mmg padan muke dier.. wahahahaa~
What to do~
Doesn’t she have any other script?
“Who’s the girl? Where are you now? I want to see you” x 50
I think it’s like Oral Presentation where everything suddenly jams in your head and all you can think of are few points which you just keep repeating :/
It must have been so loud that whoever filming this has whatever she said picked up so nicely on the video. I pity the people on the train. Their eardrums must have suffered. That’s why I always either have my Sony MP3 player with me, or some earplugs that are leftovers from my army days…
Hahahha same here! Always bring something to keep the noise polluters away, like Mats blasting speakers or Bengs playing ringtones :P
[...] the MRT. everybody is talking about it in class now and im like lost. so finally i saw the video in Faddy’s blog. she must really be damn furious and frustrated with her guy partner. screaming her lungs out [...]
Thanks for the pingback honey!
To your qn whether it’s justified or not - I’d say no. But given her circumstances, being emotionally weak and all, I think she wasn’t really sane to ‘do the right thing’.
I actually found myself mum while watching the vid. And my heart sank a bit. Breaking up is really a difficult thing to go thru, two-timed or not.
But I guess accepting reality and moving on with life is even harder yeah…
Amen. Let’s hope she moves on soon and let Karma plays its cards.
she’s a damn emo b**** that needs a lot of spanking… and of cos.. lots of love and of cos… the attention… if i were her friend, i will just get out of the train and left her there to ROT!!!… but then again, friends wont do that… if you are really her friend, i will bring her out of the mrt… but then again, she will still create a nuisance outside the mrt train.. the best way to deal with these kind of situation, call 995… wahahahahahahahahahahahha
Yeap, maybe her friend pon dah panic and malu sampai don’t know what to do :/
eh sorry.. WRONG number… 999… public nuisance with vulgarities is UN ACCEPTABLE!!!
Tulah I terfikir.. asal 995? in case she pengsan? hahha…
I heard abt tis from my classmate, Sue.
Sometimes kan ppl over react wen they’re angry or upset.
Tapi kwn dier stakat ckp, “da lar. da lar”
Zerz it doesn’t help at all.
Trueness, at least d fren cud drag her outa d train.
Kesian dier, now thousands of ppl had already watched tis clip.
Haiz…..
Actually I just realized we only watch a portion of the clip. Perhaps the friend did try to drag her out but kene smack that? We may never know~
kesian siak the girl, really. the way she screamed her lungs out. tsk. i was laughing away initially. but then again, i think i’d do the same. only at a more private place. and the friend! the friend should at least have dragged her out of the train so that she can do the screaming elsewhere.
Never wash ALL your dirty laundry in public I say :)
I just feel bad for her.
Thing is, when one is in emotional turmoil, they dont realise what they are doing. I dont think she’s an attention seeker. (but at the same time, I dont know her well enough) Even the most docile person can do murderous things when they have had enough.
Crime of passion.
True, we all don’t know what we’re capable of when under extreme emotions.
some pple do crazy things because of love, for love, or because of what they believe love is.
not everyone is like that. thank God
Yep, tell me about it. Alhamdulillah!
i cried on the train before but she’s scary.
Haha true. I’ve cried on the train before too but was trying desperately to hide it.
HAHAHAHAHHA. If i were the friend, i wud have either bring her out or . . just slap her face.. sebab dia memalukan aku! heheh. pooor girl.
Kawan ape kau ni Hajar~ hahahahha.
OMG!! I thought the one i witness was worse but this is WORST! hahax!! She should atleast come out of the train then screaming her lungs out! what more with the vulgarities come out.. if im the friend i will be running away from her.. hahax!! or atleast bring alight somewhere let her cool down.. bt still, this is worst! hahax! U shud see video at youtube, a lady dance at J.E int and another was inside the train a man sleeping thats totally hilarious.. hahax!!
Haha what DID you witness on the train? Anyway haha yeah I typed “MRT” in youtube and the results are hilarious! kekeke…
hi faddy! I’ve been a silent reader of your blog but I can’t keep my silence anymore cause I sooo need to comment on this. I laughed in total disbelieve when I saw this video. It’s not as if my comments are going to help but this is what I would do if I were the
friend: run far far away from that raging monster of a friend and then convince the commuters that I have nothing to do with her or I’d give her one helluva tight slap on her face to snap her out of her raging fit and then run away
girl: If really my boyfriend was cheating on me, I’d go straight to his house and when in private, I’ll give him a couple of good jabs and front kicks… probably a couple of choke slams to finish it off.. and then dump him. I definitely wouldn’t be screaming my ass out like that in public unless there’s a cockroach in my pants
public: I’d be a good samaritan and advise the other commuters to stand at least a 10 foot radius away from the raging monster and her stupid friend or advise the commuters to perhaps evacuate that cabin.. hmm.. or join forces with the rest of the commuters to carry and throw those two inconsiderate people out the train at the next stop
:)
nie semua merepek!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!